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Is oral allowed in Catholicism?

Yes, oral sex is sex; no, the Catholic Church does not say that you can do whatever you want as long as you are not having intercourse. No, you will not necessarily go to hell for having sex outside of marriage, but it is a mortal sin that must be sincerely confessed if one does it.

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I am a graduate student from Cincinnati, Ohio. I don’t know where to begin. As a human being, a woman and a Catholic, I am utterly offended by this article (“Going Down With Catholics” March 27). Yes, oral sex is sex; no, the Catholic Church does not say that you can do whatever you want as long as you are not having intercourse. No, you will not necessarily go to hell for having sex outside of marriage, but it is a mortal sin that must be sincerely confessed if one does it. The Catholic Church advocates chastity outside and inside of marriage. This does not mean just abstaining from sex outside of marriage. This means looking upon your boyfriend/girlfriend with respect, love and value their dignity as a human person. This means not participating in any sexual activities outside of marriage, not because you think you will go to hell if you do, but because you love (your partner), you love God and you love yourself. This also means once you are married, it is not a free-for-all. You still must look upon your husband/wife with respect and value – you cannot treat them like a piece of meat. You are still expected to treat sex as a holy union. That is not to say that you aren’t supposed to enjoy sex – you are! God made sex pleasurable for a reason. But you cannot use each other for that pleasure – sex is self-gift, not selfish. FYI 1: Catholics believe sex is holy, that it is beautiful. Sex is for procreation and for unity within a marriage. Sex is the total giving of oneself to another, without holding anything back. Sex is the marital act, showing with your body what you pronounced in your vows. Sex is so wonderful, so holy, that it is not something to be flung about, to be taken lightly. FYI 2: The Immaculate Conception is the conception of Mary, without original sin, by her parents Anne and Joachim. The Immaculate Conception is not when Mary conceived Christ – that is the Annunciation. FYI 3: The “ultimate sacrifice” is Christ. “Penelope,” maybe the point of writing this article was to make a splash, to irritate people and try to start arguments. Maybe it was to draw out the “confrontational Catholics,” to try and get good Catholics to say that you are wrong so that you can call them judgmental. Maybe you really do believe this. Really, it does not matter. The point is, the article that was written was not researched, not validated and completely judgmental and offensive. This should have been thrown out in the editing process when no valid research was presented to back it up. Please see Pope John Paul II’s “Theology of the Body” for more information on the Church’s teachings on sexuality and sexual morality. If nothing else, there should be a published apology for slander.

Sarah MooreColumbus, Ohio

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What is the best healing prayer?

Be near me in my time of weakness and pain; sustain me by your grace, that my strength and courage may not fail; heal me according to your will; and help me always to believe that what happens to me here is of little account if you hold me in eternal life, my Lord and my God. Amen.

In times of emotional, mental, or physical hardship, it's easy to feel hopeless and like things will never get better. Sometimes, untangling yourself from these spiraling thoughts can be a confusing and difficult process. But it is important to remember that you are not alone and there are steps you can take to heal and find peace and strength once again. One way to approach this process is to read or say aloud a healing prayer. Whether the obstacle you are facing relates to your health, work, family, relationship, or something else, prayer can provide comfort during the healing process. Reading or reciting these prayers to yourself or a loved one won't be the solution to the problem you are currently up against. You may need to pursue other paths such as speaking to a professional to address the underlying problem. Recovery looks different for everyone, but healing prayers can provide comfort in a time when you need it most. The Covid-19 pandemic is one ongoing hardship that has impacted most everyone's mental and emotional wellbeing, especially when it comes to grief, loss, and pain. Healing words and prayers for the sick can offer strength and help alleviate some of the loneliness and isolation that many have felt (and continue to feel) throughout the pandemic. If you have a friend or family member who is going through a hardship, you can also share these healing prayers with them. Keeping them in your thoughts and prayers can bring them peace, just as reading prayers for healing can give you strength. Find more strength, peace and hope every day with WD's Everyday Inspiration Bible verse cards — a portable box of inspo that will keep the encouragement you need close at hand.

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