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If your friend is toxic, dangerous, or otherwise someone you do not feel comfortable with, ghosting them is acceptable. It's also OK to ghost a friend who doesn't respect your boundaries, causes you to feel threatened, or belittles you.
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Read More »If you've seen unhealthy signs or red flags in your relationship and you're wondering what to do next - you're not alone. Many people in the middle of toxic relationships find themselves wondering how they even got in this relationship in the first place. The unwitting partner in a toxic relationship will often blame themselves for not seeing the signs once they realize that they are true - in a toxic or abusive relationship. In this article, we talk about some of the warning signs that are often present - before people get into toxic relationships, warning signs for relationships that have the potential to turn toxic, and where to get help if you find yourself trapped in a toxic relationship. Here, we are not going to focus on the person who is ghosted and asks herself, " Am I being ghosted ," but we focus on how to ghost the person you need to eliminate from your life. Let's start with some of the common warning signs that your relationship may be toxic. Option two is to try to work things out with your partner by getting therapy or another kind of professional third-party intervention. The caveat with this option - is that most people who initiate abusive and toxic relationships don't usually seek therapy independently. It's up to you to decide which option works best for your safety, your family or dependents' safety, and what will be the best solution for maintaining your sense of well-being and good mental health. Following are a few more warning signs that a toxic relationship is on the horizon. Once you realize that you are in a toxic relationship, you have two options. You can exit the toxic relationship as safely and quietly as you can and not ever breathe another word to your ex. This is called "ghosting." When you ghost someone - you're basically disappearing like a ghost in the night, and they never hear from you again. While "ghosting" is not often seen as polite, in cases of ending abusive and toxic relationships sometimes - it's the only way. The term "toxic" refers to behaviors that intentionally cause physical, mental or emotional harm to other people. These types of actions have a ripple effect and don't just hurt one person. If you're in a relationship with someone who is mistreating you or making you feel like you are the "problem," it's likely that their behavior is toxic. What makes relationships toxic - is when there seems to be no end to problems that arise insight. If your partner refuses to address important issues in your relationship, won't listen to your point of view, or devalues your opinion, chances are - you're in the middle of a toxic relationship. Another example could be that they persistently call you early in the morning while you're sleeping after you've politely asked them to stop. These are examples of someone who might be violating your boundaries. If someone disrespects your boundaries over and over again despite your speaking to them about it and trying to change the dynamic, it might be time to distance yourself. Boundaries are an integral part of healthy relationships . We need to be able to say, "I'm comfortable with this, and I'm not comfortable with that." If you're not used to setting boundaries, it can seem scary or intimidating, but in reality, it's a way to make relationships work. We all have boundaries that we set with other people, hoping that they'll respect them. Let's say that someone repeatedly brings up a topic that is personal or painful. Imagine you've asked them not to speak about it, and they keep bringing it up. If you are experiencing any of the types of abuse mentioned above, you have every right to ghost your abuser. There are times when it's crucial to cut off contact with someone, especially if they're prone to fits of rage, physical violence, or sexual abuse. Your wellbeing is of the utmost importance, and you don't owe anything to someone who is hurting you. Ghosting is an appropriate response to someone abusing you, whether that's physical, mental, emotional, sexual, or financial abuse. It's okay to stop talking to someone who has abused you in the past or the present. If you're in danger, contact a domestic violence resource center or the National Domestic Violence Hotline in the US: 1-800-799-7233 There is a difference between an unhealthy relationship and an abusive or toxic one. An unhealthy relationship may mean that it's codependent or sacrificing their needs for the other person disproportionately. Unhealthy relationships have the potential to be healed through a combination of psychotherapy and behavioral changes. An abusive relationship, on the other hand, has very little chance of thriving. Being in an abusive relationship means that someone is being treated with disrespect and is receiving some form of abuse, whether physical, emotional, verbal, financial, sexual or so on. The abuse may occur on one end or both in this kind of relationship. The foundation of a healthy relationship is honesty. If you aren't telling your partner or loved one the truth, the relationship is based on a false sense of reality. We want to be close to those we love, and part of that is contingent upon being honest. When someone you lovelies to you, you can feel a variety of ways. You may feel betrayed or like you can never trust them again or take their word at face value. The foundation of the relationship has been shaken. If you find that someone you are close with is repeatedly lying, it's time to create a healthy distance from that person. You want to make sure that people in your life respect you enough to tell you the truth. There's no gray area when it comes to lying. It's toxic behavior that creates chaos in relationships. Lying, whether it's in a friendship or relationship, is not acceptable. You don't owe anyone an explanation if someone is lying to you or manipulating you; they disrespect you, and it's okay to cut them off.
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